Over the years as our little family has grown into a biggish family those traditions have felt harder and harder to keep. At times we've had to modify because of kids' schedules or our commitments. Other times it has simply felt exhausting trying to keep up with all the traditions so we've let some slip. And some years the kids just don't need new pj's.
But last week spending the day at my parents with my sister and brother and their beautiful families reminded me how important it is to hold onto our traditions. These kids of ours are growing at lightning speed and as they get older I want them to have these memories. I want them to look back and talk about the funny and sweet moments together.
Just as we started to get prepped for carving the wind picked up something fierce and the kids made a beeline for the door to run wild and catch leaves. Shoes were optional.
My sister reminded me of when we were little we would stand in the front yard of our old house and wait for the wind to bring gusts of leaves over the roof of our house. We would run all over that front yard trying to catch leaves in mid-flight.
The gap of years between our kids truly is a gift.
It was not our plan to have 11 years separating oldest and youngest but I can now say how thankful I am for the space. Seeing how quickly my bigs are growing helps me appreciate so much more this time. The evidence of speed sits in the driver's seat of my mini van. Time flies.
I don't know that we can slow it down. Or that we can change much with our agendas but I do know I want to embrace these moments and soak it all up.
In the crazy busyness I want us to keep the traditions and make room for the moments.
Because I know that's what will stick with our kids. Carving pumpkins, chasing leaves and laughing until their bellies hurt.
And whether they need them or not...there will be
matching pj's this year.
