Everyday, sometimes a couple times a day, Jo poses this question to me....."What's more important?" "What's more important mom, doing your schoolwork or making someone a birthday surprise?" "What's more important mom, being on time or taking care of a frog?" "What's more important mom, if someone ruins your shoes or hurts their ankle?" [as she's walking around in my wedges]. Just about every time, she's got me. She gets it. She sees the bigger picture and she reminds me that in our hurried pace, in the demands of getting things checked off lists and being places on time there are far more important
things people in this world. This girl, she's schooling me on what the important stuff is. Of course I know these things but am I truly living my life to reflect it? I am so caught up in the list, in the getting there that I miss out on the good stuff. The important stuff.
It's funny. You make decisions for your kids with the mindset you are the expert on what they need most. I was so excited to have them home and to be their teacher this year. I hope they've learned a thing or two from me but I guarantee they have taught me more. God has used them in big ways to teach me important lessons. We've learned to work through disagreements, we've had deep talks about God and heaven, the wonder and awe of a spider web, being called out numerous times on my patience [or lack thereof] and then reminded I'm an example. yikes. Their appreciation for the world around them and their love for others is humbling. Their faith blows me away- it's no wonder that Jesus tells us we must have faith like a child. They get it. And I am so thankful to be their mom and so thankful for the lessons they teach me each day.
Like sometimes making sure your frog has water
IS more important than being to somewhere on time.
"Who gets the highest rank in God's kingdom?"
For an answer Jesus called over a child, whom he stood in the middle of the room, and said, "I'm telling you, once and for all, that unless you return to square one and start over like children, you're not even going to get a look at the kingdom, let alone get in. Whoever becomes simple and elemental again, like this child, will rank high in God's kingdom. What's more, when you receive the childlike on my account, it's the same as receiving me." Matthew 18:2-5 [MSG]